Agreed and I hear you, but while women obviously deal with unspeakable, unreasonable, and terrible behavior from men in both real life and online, I guess my point is many pretend it doesn't cut both ways, as you say, or seem to fail to see the problem with the double standard. It's not something I've ever found to be a problem in my own life, like you stated, you find someone who it was never an issue for and it's never even talked about or whatever--my problem is with the women online who share the memes trashing short guys but get butt hurt over a weight joke, or the beauty standards of society and etc. It's just hypocritical and frustrates me is all.