It wasn't a joke. To clarify, when I said messing around, I meant trying different things in my writing as far as approaches go. It wasn't satire, it just wasn't the personal dating ad people made it out to be.
I don't find anything about any of it "anti-feminist" , the wedding thing as I've stated over and over again was an expression I didn't foresee a bunch of overly critical women taking literally, but hardly misogynistic or anything of the sort. I've moved past the fact so many found an issue with one aspect or another of the post, much like I'd advise you all to move past the petty personal criticisms.