My point is, for women to do their best to make better decisions when choosing a partner. Point blank.
And no, I’m not referring to women who get trapped in abusive relationships. Nor was I ever.
I’m referring to those I know personally who repeatedly have babies by guys who don’t take care of the kid and refuse to take any responsibility for the men they choose.
And I didn’t use the word trapped, perhaps women looking to trap men with a baby are few and far between as you say. However, I know plenty that have had one in hopes of improving a failing relationship. They somehow see it as a solution to make a relationship work but it’s not one and it’s unfair to the kid involved.