So true Chris. To really start to hold yourself accountable for EVERYTHING that happens to you is life altering, at least it has been for me. Also, a lot of times people misconstrue things that just naturally happen as things that are happening TO them. Sure, an elderly relative passing is sad in its own way but it’s not something that happens to you, it just happens. There’s a major difference. Making those events about us is selfish and unhealthy.